How perfectionism can affect your life?


The changes of the current life, such as the influence of social networks, the catwalk models, have made a career and competition exist where perfection can become a goal that many people want to reach, at any cost.

Experts tend to define perfectionism as "a combination of excessively high personal standards and overly critical self-assessments." That is, the end of good work, without errors and without mistakes, so that the result obtained pleases everyone.

Perfectionism is an unrealistic attitude and can lead to more lethal suffering, people with these thoughts tend to be the people with the most psychological problems. An excess of perfectionism has been linked to a greater predisposition to suffer from anxiety disorders, depression, eating disorders or abuse of consumption, such as alcohol and drugs.

Those people who fall into obsession to avoid the negative, the error, which they don’t tolerate happen, end up paralyzing to the point of limiting almost their entire lives.

In today's society, perfectionism generates so much competitiveness that it is considered a kind of defect-virtue. We find it difficult to criticize who invests a great effort to do things as well as possible. A perfectionist thought may work in the short term, but not in the long run. Compulsions keep obsessions, they are their food and thanks to them, they grow even more.


How to know if you are a perfectionist?

  • Concern for details, rules, lists, order, organization or schedules.

  • Perfectionism that interferes with the completion of tasks, is like falling so much in perfection that you are never satisfied with anything.

  • Excessive stubbornness, scrupulousness and inflexibility in matters of morals, ethics or values.

  • Low selfsteem

  • You never feel enough, you always think you can see yourself or get along better.

  • You look in the mirror constantly and you don't get your own approval.

  • Signs of stiffness and stubbornness.

So far, the best treatment to treat compulsive perfectionism has been "exposure with response prevention." The treatment consists of blocking or delaying the compulsion, while in parallel other types of strategies are developed to tolerate and reduce the anxiety that this generates.

Once the treatment is started, the anxiety will go down through a process of habituation and, in addition, the obsession will lose credibility when observing that what we fear so much finally does not happen.

Remember that the problems we originate in our head are like movies, and movies are fiction and not reality.

Learn to be happy with what you have and what you are. If there are things that bother you or that you want to improve, you can do it, but without forcing yourself to reach the perfect point, since it doesn’t exist. Remember that part of what makes us unique are our for 100% natural products.



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